Tammy, I can’t even imagine the loss you feel. Elmer was one of the nicest men I have ever met and although I havent seen him in over a year, since Scott and I divorced, I will always remember his nice smile and the fact that he was always kind to me. I hope you find comfort in knowing that the lord called him up for a reason and he is looking down on you and the girls and will watch over you forever. Please email me if you need anything. I will be thinking of you and your family. Take Care.