Erin Amber Lee

June 3, 1977 - February 18, 2020

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Saturday, February 22, 2020 4:00 PM Jerusalem Second Baptist Church


Visitation Saturday, February 22, 2020 from 2:00 PM-4:00 PM at Jerusalem Second Baptist Ch

Erin Amber Lee, 42 of Urbana Ohio, passed away on February 18, 2020 as the result of an auto accident.

Amber was born June 3, 1977 in Springfield, Ohio.

She is survived by her parents, her mother, Shelley Musser and her father, Greg (Nikki) Lee; her sons, Ezra Lee, Ian Barrett and Elijah Barrett; her fiancé, Kevin Thomas; the father of her sons, Keith Barrett; her grandmothers, Bonnie Jones and Kay Jacobs; her siblings, Hannah Lee, Lorie Musser King, Nathan (Jessi) Musser, Brody Lee and Daulton Lee; her great aunt, Helen (Holney) Cotrell; her nieces, Terrin and Marley Musser; her nephews, Jackson and Dillon Musser and Zion Adams; her uncles, Scott and Chuck Jones and Jeff Smith and anxiously awaiting the arrival of her granddaughter Honor Lee Barrett as well as a lifetime of cousins and friends.

Amber was preceded in death by her brother, Ian Lee; her grandfather, Sherwood Jones; her grandmother and partner in crime, Marlene Jones; and her dad Scott Musser and her uncle, Gary Lee.

She enjoyed making memories with everyone she met, and she never met a stranger. She loved painting and thrift shopping. Amber would light up the darkest of rooms with her smile. She was fiercely loyal to her family and friends and her boys were her life. Amber will be missed by all!

A gathering of family and friends will be held from 2-4 pm on Saturday, February 22, 2020 in the Jerusalem Second Baptist Church; where the memorial service will follow at 4:00 pm with Rev. Michael Freeman officiating.

In lieu of flowers Memorial contributions may be made to the family in care of Vernon Funeral Home, 235 Miami Street, Urbana, Ohio 43078.

Services entrusted to VERNON FUNERAL HOME, Urbana, Ohio.

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Selena Sepulveda - Mar 11, 2020
Amber is my sister's in law. I'm going to miss her I still remember when she was here with us. She marry my brother. I love her so much I still remember the smile she had n she was very funny n her jokes. I will still have u in my heart ❤️
Mary Jane de Anda Sepulveda - Mar 11, 2020
Pedro & Mary Jane Sepulveda, Omar Ernesto Sepulveda parent's give our condolences to Shelly Musser and family for Amber's passing. There is not doubt that Amber is walking g the streets of gold, Amen. Since day one I loved mija (daughter) Amber. Amber was sweet and nice. Amber was a happy person. I loved mija Amber. If anyone wants to get a hold of us call us at 956-854-6359, that's my phone number Mary Jane, Amber's exMother in Law.
Carrie King - Mar 5, 2020
Amber was a beautiful soul and a very dedicated friend and mother. I grew up with Amber and she was such a huge part of my life for so many years. Amber was loved by everyone who ever crossed her path, young and old everyone knew her and loved her. She could walk into a room and just her smile made you want to gravitate towards her! Amber was there for me through some of the toughest times of my life and she never turned her back on me and she was always there to listen and to call you out on your bs! I will forever be grateful that she was truly a beautiful blessing in my life just to have known her but to have her as such a close personal friend who I consider my Gemini twin sister (we called each other Gemini). We celebrated our birthday together and even when I moved to Florida we stayed in touch and when I moved back she was the first friend I saw. I will miss you Amber so very much! You touched so many lives and you have always been my rock. You truly are missed and loved for eternity! See you again one day and I can’t wait to see your beautiful smile again! I love you and my heart is broken but I will always keep you in my heart and remember all the great times we shared our ups and downs and everything in between- - you are my sister from another mister, my Gemini twin, one of the best friends I have ever had the pleasure of knowing! Love you always Gemini ♊️!! I will see you on the other side!💜💜💜
Angie Crisp - Feb 25, 2020
I’m so sorry for your loss. Amber will truly be missed by all that knew her, and mourned by all that love her!!
Heather Bryson Demma - Feb 22, 2020
I am so sorry to learn of the loss of my dear cousin...I’m sure she is at peace with my father Kevin and the rest of our loved ones...May God Bless You All in this time of sadness.
Scott Mc - Feb 22, 2020
Dang. You will be missed by many. Fly high and let god show you the rest of the way. Your friends. S & K.
Ashley Rose (Davis) - Feb 21, 2020
Has I sit here typing this message I still can't get it thru my head that your really gone j just don't want it to be real wish it was a bad dream you definitely had a lot of friends girl a lot of people really seems to of care for you ❤️ you and I hit it off From day one I loved how real you was how u would speak your mind and not be fake about it how loyal you are and how I could tell you anything at all and I knew my secrets would be safe with you ..your one of the most loyal people I know and now there's one less good one left on this Earth God needed you in heaven for reasons only he knows I hurt for your boys I love them their family their my kids blood family and I'll always watch over them for you Keith is strong willed and he will see them thru this storm he's a good dad . u you had my back when I felt like I was at my lowest and people that should of been there wasn't and that sucked but u was and u Didint sugar coat anything you told me straight up what I should and shouldn't of done ..but you became like a sister to me I'm glad I got to speak with you before you passed I'm sad we didn't get to follow thru with are plans to hang out soon now that will have to wait till I get up there with you when I text you that day and told you I was praying for Elijah and that stuff was gonna work out and I just Wana to make sure you was ok u thanked me but it ws my pleasure cuz you ws always there for me u said ash I loved you from day one and I loved you from day one we both are so much alike its crazy. I know how much you love your kids and they know it I know you'll be watching from the sky's their pain will be bad for a while I know from when j lost my dad but they'll get thru it with help of family and friends though the pain will never go away it does get easier n time but your one of a kind amber Lee no one can ever replace you your n original one and only ..I promise to keep an eye on my little cousins and your new grandbaby mannn girl you'll be so missed I'll see you again someday ..till then fly high beautiful 👼 angel 😇🙏❤️
Charma Brown - Feb 20, 2020
Amber had one of the biggest hearts of anyone I have ever met. She definitely lived her life with no regrets. She was a wonderful friend to so many of us. She will definitely be missed. She had the biggest personality and you always had belly laughs with her around you. My deepest condolences to her 3 boys and her Mother and sister and brother that were the love and light of her life! I am so glad that I got to be her friend Fly high Amber, until we meet again
Pamela DeBouse - Feb 20, 2020
Prayers to the family. Amber will be dearly missed. Loved becoming her friend at the Marysville corner store. Im deeply sorry for the family loss🙏
Larry an Shannon Rogan Sr. - Feb 20, 2020
Amberwill be missed she always called us mams an pops. We will miss her sprit an smile. Amber was our girl. Rest in peace girl. We love you!!!!
Susan York - Feb 20, 2020
You were the most beautiful baby and just got prettier with age. Your looks were only outshined by your beautiful spirit! Heaven is much brighter now that you're an angel there! Su Su loves you! Always have! Always will!
Kathy Zaborowski - Feb 20, 2020
Ezra: Prayers of strength, comfort and peace being said for all of you. You are not alone. Mrs. Z
mandie miller nash - Feb 20, 2020
Prayers for the boys & family!! She deff. knew how to light up a room & will be greatly missed!! So glad she was apart of my life journey! Rip girl xoxo
mandie miller nash - Feb 20, 2020
Prayers for the boys & family!! She deff. knew how to light up a room & will be greatly missed!! So glad she was apart of my life journey! Rip girl xoxo
Cindy reaver - Feb 20, 2020
Shelley and family I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers
Joe shoemaker - Feb 20, 2020
Man ! I'm lost for words she was a damn good friend to me and I'm gonna miss I wish you all the best and in there at this time!
Mistie - Feb 20, 2020
Such an amazing soul and woman. You couldnt ask to meet a better friend. She could be at her roughest and still exstend a hand a thought love or anything needed to another. No words can be said to make this any better or easier. God knows shed still wana see smiles tho not tears. Hang tough boys your moma will always have your back no doubt. She will always be right there with you in every moment. Im truely sorry and sending lots of prayers love and hugs to all the family friends so close to Amber with her beatiful soul. R I H fly high moma and share all you wonderfulness up there as well !!!
Carla King - Feb 19, 2020
Those we love don't go away, They walk beside us every day, Unseen, Unheard, But always near, so loved, So missed, so very dear..... I'm at a loss for words. You'll will truly be missed my old friend. Thinking of you and your family.
Darlene Shirk - Feb 19, 2020
Rest in heaven sweet girl. You are loved and missed by so many.
Cee Cee Griffin - Feb 19, 2020
Marcia Cole - Feb 19, 2020
My deepest sympathy pours out to all of you! She will be truly missed!!!! I’m Torre Horsleys mom and Amber was a special friend to her!!!!
Patty (carter)Worthen - Feb 19, 2020
Shelly n family, was so sorry to hear this. Prayers n thoughts for you and family🙏🙏
DEBBIE Robinson - Feb 19, 2020
Ezra, Elijah and Ian My heart is with you. I wish so very much that I could make this all go away for you. Johnny sends his love and wants you all to know that he is with you in spirit and that he praying for you. You guys are all like brothers. Beyond friends. Brothers. Please just remember this. No matter what, your Mama loved you. She loved you unconditionally and that love, that unconditional love as a Mama will never die. She is with you. She will always be with you. Look in the mirror, my loves. She spit you out! You have been dealt a lot but hold onto each other. I love all of you so very much and please know that I loved your Mom. Her smile. Her laughter. Her spirit. She was so full of life and love. Make her proud. Stand strong and stand together. strong. Be there for your brothers and your Grandma. They are going to need you. But, please, don't hold in your pain, honey. I'm here for you always. curly haired boy...stay strong and stay focused. Elijah...God has you baby. Pray. When you get tired of praying, pray some more.
Andrea Thill - Feb 19, 2020
Shelley, My heart is breaking for you. You and your family aare inmy thoughts and prayers.
Rhonda - Feb 19, 2020
So sorry for your loss she will be greatly missed such a great soul
Trinda Kaminski - Feb 19, 2020
Amber,my goodness if there was anyone I would want by myside would be you. You are one of the most amazing,strong,confident woman I have ever met. The way you treated anyone with love and compassion and also with sympathy. The love that poured out of you without second thought is what made me look up to you in these ways. I will always remember how you made me feel even when I was down, tou always told me to keep my head held high becaus as women we need to be the strongest. Gosh, I am going to miss your smile and the laughter and all the fun times we did share! Forever in my heart and will forever be grateful to call you my friend. Love u always and I will see you again one day.
Pam Hooper & Jason Trainer - Feb 19, 2020
So sorry for your loss. Amber will be missed by many!! Praying for her family & friends
Sara Dean - Feb 19, 2020
I never seen nothing but a smile on this girls face wherever I seen her, Amber could light up a room from a mile away! We are all going to miss you, you were taken way too soon but God had other plans for you! Fly high babygirl. My heart break so for her sons and the rest of her family’s. Prayers and condolences.
Christina smith - Feb 19, 2020
Amber was one of a kind if you didn't know her you missed out she light up a room was funny always out meeting and greeting would do for family friends anyone she loved. She will be so missed. I loved her dearly so glad to call her my friend and fam. Prayers to her son's and family. She will be missed.
Brandy Young - Feb 19, 2020
I worked with Amber at Wendy’s and always asked for her when we would eat at Frishs!! She was such an amazing woman! Always had a smile and her laugh was contagious! She will be missed!!
Lori Allen - Feb 19, 2020
Amber was one of the sweetest lady's that I ever was blessed to call my friend. I will miss you. Till we meet again fly high.
Rusty Gaver - Feb 19, 2020
Shelly & family, I'm so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.

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